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3 Signs He Loves You But Is Afraid of Commitment

Let me start off by saying this… just because a guy is hesitant it doesn’t mean you should count him out. Look for these 3 critical clues to find out if he’s in love with you but, wrestling with the commitment side of things.

So let me ask you, have you ever been with a guy who you were in love with, or who might have been in love with you, but was absolutely terrified of commitment? Leave a comment below and share your experience.

Your Relationship Coach,
Keishorne Scott

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Okay, so let’s jump into this..


  1. When he’s with you its fireworks, but when he’s not with you it’s crickets.

This is common for guys who just don’t want to jump into a relationship. However, just because they don’t want to be in a relationship on a logical side, doesn’t mean that their emotional side is on the same page.

  1. He tells you that he loves you, but he’s also putting his energy into other things.

A guy who’s ready for long term commitment, and wants to be with someone for a very long time, is going to want to spend a lot of his time with you. He’s going to put a lot of his energy into the relationship. A man who wants to be with you will be with you. Trust me, I know, a man who is really interested in a woman will not have her confused, guessing or waiting. He has no time for childish games.

Another thing to keep in mind is that a younger guy may not be ready to put enough energy into the relationship. It’s not until he hits a mature point and says, “Now I’m looking for something more long term.” That’s when guys start to flip the switch and are willing to invest their emotions and time.

  1. He immerses himself into your life today, but he’s not willing to make future plans.

He might be willing to meet your parents, meet your friends, or even allow you to keep your things in his apartment… but at the same time, he might not be willing to make future plans or sacrifices to be with you. There may certainly be signs that he loves you, but he’s not ready to take the plunge, he’s not ready to jump. Men who are commitment focused are going to be more comfortable talking about the future and making future plans.

Of course these things aren’t just black or white. Some guys change, mature and go through transition periods. However, if you’re with a guy who’s absolutely afraid of commitment and showing these signs, then it’s important for you to be disciplined. If he’s not willing to give you love and commitment, then it’s time to look yourself in the mirror, examine your relationship, and be willing to walk away in order to find what makes you happy. At the end of the day, the best thing you can do is be real with yourself and him.

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Keishorne Scott is an Author, Motivational Speaker, Mentor, Award Winner and Entrepreneur who was born in the Town Of Arima, Trinidad and Tobago, raised in Barbados and then moved to Brooklyn, NY at the age of eight where he has been resting his head ever since. While growing up in Canarsie in Brookyn he knew he was going to be the one to make a change. Inspired by friends and family; he knew he had the love and support to pursue in making a difference. Keishorne is also the founder of the “One More Educated Black Man” Mentoring Organization. By having such support he has been able to create this organization that allows the youth to step outside of the box and create futures of their own by gaining a helping hand for positive men who cares.

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